Reunion with my deceased father

Talked to him through a clairvoyant

My Dad

This blog post is for the folks who are coming over from Twitter in search of ways to overcome their sense of loss of a loved one. I myself was devastated by the loss of my dad six years ago. What made things infinitely better for me was being able to talk to him again. You may be scoffing right now, but it is true. After his death, I acquired some psychic abilities and fell into a group of Columbus Ohio psychics that allowed me to accomplish some amazing things in this area. To hopefully give you some comfort, I have reprinted Chapter 6 of my book that describes the first time I was reunited with him. So I encourage you to read it. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. After you are done, I will direct you to some other blogs on this website where I reconnected with my recently deceased mother-in-law, Mary. I assure you, this is not fiction, and everything here is true. Best of all, the message from the “other side is all good”, there is nothing to worry about:

 

Every parting gives a foretaste of death, every reunion a hint of the resurrection. Arthur Schopenhauer

I should have marked down the date; I never knew that I would be writing a book. Anyway, it was sometime in the late September of 2009 that I went to the Psychic Medium, Brenda Posani’s house on cloudy afternoon to try to make contact with my dad. After letting me into the house, Brenda guided me to her living room where she sat on her couch and I stepped in a comfortable chair opposite of her. I remember that she did not turn on any lights and so it was a little bit dark. I was to learn in the future the normal process that Brenda goes through when she makes contact with the spirits of the departed. That process is to get some psychic insight into the person that she is doing the reading for. It’s a fascinating routine where she draws out past events and personality traits of her client. She did state some interesting and accurate things about me personally, but I did not write them down or remember them because of what happened next. Brenda was sort of slouching back in her couch, when she said, “Oh my, what an entrance! Your dad just came in the room projecting a very big, strong appearance. He is now sitting here with his legs crossed like this.” Brenda then crossed her legs in that unusual manner that my dad did. He keeps saying to you “good job, good job.”   That phrase was one of the last things he told me when I spend time with him when he was on his deathbed in Jacksonville. Brenda then said that my dad kept repeating that he was sorry, so sorry. Tears welled in my eyes as I knew that he was referring to a big battle between my mother and I and how he many times he took my mother’s side. Out loud, I told him that he had nothing to be sorry for now and that it was all right. Through Brenda my dad then revealed, “I want you to know that in life I put on a very confident face, in truth though, I was unconfident and many times unsure of myself. I regret that I put too much emphasis on material things. These things really are unimportant. I should have been putting more emphasis on relationships. Relationships cannot be bought.”   My dad then said something that will be addressed in a future chapter. He said “I now know that you had difficult times in your teen years.”   To change the mood and to get on to happier subjects, I then asked Brenda to ask my dad if he was responsible for my son Bryan’s recent outbreak of chauvinism.   Brenda was smiling as she was silently listening to the response. She told me that my dad laughed and said “Why are you blaming me for this? This is all your fault!”   By this time, I was absolutely astounded by this experience and I wanted to write down what my father was saying. I scrambled to Brenda’s kitchen to grab a pen and went back to my chair in the living room. Luckily, I had some paper in my back pocket from an Internet article that I wanted to share with Brenda. I started to scribble furiously on the back of the paper. This is how I was able to capture the details that I am now sharing with you.   I then wanted to clear up a mystery that happened after he died. “Hey dad, was that you in the van when I saw your face on Bryan?”   “Yes that was me; I wanted you to know that I was around.”   Oh my god I thought, I wasn’t imagining things, that incident was real.   “God, you scared the crap out of me!” I said. It appears that the scene was then played to Brenda psychically. This vision caused her to chime in, “that incident happened in your garage, right?” I responded yes to her.     I then asked my dad if he was doing any flying over there. He responded, “Everyone flies over here.”   I asked, “What do you do on the other side?”   “I spend a lot of time with you and your brother and sister. I am with you in your office, I watch you work on your computer all day.” (This is true, I do have a home office and I do spend almost all my time on the computer.)   Now knowing that my dad spends time with me in my house just like Concetta Bertoldi describes in her book Do Dead People Watch Us Shower?, I wanted to ask him about the things that were going on in my household. During the summer of 2009, Karol and I undertook a major kitchen remodeling; I asked my dad what he thought about the outcome.   He responded, “Too much work, it was unnecessary.”   In the August of 2009, my family prevailed against me and we purchased a Papillion puppy. My main complaint was that when the kids are in school, I would be alone with the dog when I was trying to work in my office. I asked my dad what he thought about the dog. Brenda received an image from my father and laughed. Brenda said that my dad was pointing his finger to his head like a gun and was pulling the trigger.   “Your dad says that the dog is too noisy and irritating. (This was true.) He also says that the dog can see him and that he riles up the dog sometimes just to get him going.” (All of these mannerisms are consistent with my dad during his lifetime.)   I then asked my dad what he thought about his grandchildren. He responded that Bryan was kind of intense and that Jani is a princess. He said that Jani feels his presence and that she is very spiritual. He then switched subjects and told me that he was worried about my brother Dave’s smoking habits. (This was something he was always worried about in his life.) I then asked him if he spends any time at his house in Florida. His response surprised me. Brenda started to pound the armrest of her sofa with the flat of her hand and responded for my dad, “Never, never, never. I don’t go where I’m not wanted.” I reassured him that he was very much welcome in my house. My dad then showed a symbol to Brenda of a large tree with all its limbs cut off. Brenda said that this image represented my family and how it was now split since my dad died. (This was certainly true, my wife Karol always prophesied that when my dad died, my family would lose its cohesion and fall apart. She was right.) My dad then made an unusual comment about my mother. He said that she doesn’t spend much time thinking about the future or present, but spends most of her time thinking about the past.   I then asked my dad if I could communicate with him during my meditation periods. He told me that he was there except that he couldn’t get close to me because two spirits that he did not know were dominating access to me. He told me to keep the others at bay when meditating and choose him. Brenda then told me that she sensed a spirit named Rollo was hovering close to me during my meditations.   My father then told me he was talking to his “Council of Elders” to see if they could arrange a future lifetime where he and I would be twin brothers born in a town somewhere on the seacoast. My dad just loved living by the sea and I was touched that he would want to spend another lifetime with me. Somehow I don’t think the powers in charge would arrange that, it would be too nice of a life.   To clear up another mystery, I asked him if he stopped taking his Essiac tea to keep his cancer at bay. He laughed and said that he did know about that but he would take the vitamins that I take in the morning that come in a green bottle with the flowers on the label. Well it just so happens that I do take a supplement in the morning that’s in a green plastic bottle with pink flowers on it. I was to learn in the future that spirits just love to make validating statements in psychic readings that certify that what they are communicating is true. My vitamin supplement bottle was this reading’s validating statement. In the future, I would see validation over and over again in readings.   I’m not quite sure how the reading wound down and ended. It had to have lasted at least an hour. After it ended, I was just blown away. It was one of the most important experiences of my life.

What did I get out of the experience besides being reunited with my father? I learned that your personality goes forward and exists after you die. In the case of my father, he sure did not change much other than he was much more “spiritual” and understanding. The concept of the “Council of Elders” was confirmed. (The Council of Elders is your personal oversight board of senior spirits who oversee your spiritual development.) Finally, I learned that spirits live with us and we are completely unaware of this fact. What next? I wanted to further explore my past lives in more detail. Having discovered Brenda’s powers, she was going to be my tour guide.

If you found the above interesting, you would really like Chapter 20 of my book which is called Father’s Day. This chapter described the special Father’s Day of 2012 when I brought all of my dad’s grandkids to a group reading where he dispensed advice to each grandchild. As a special surprise, my long lost grandparents and deceased cousin Ted also showed up at this very different family reunion. What I am trying to communicate is that the spirits of your lost loved ones are with you a lot. Not all the time, but more than you would imagine. For me, I find a lot of comfort in that, I hope you can too.   I encourage you to also check out these blogs as they tell the story of how our family stayed in touch with my wife’s beloved mother just after her death. You can find them here, here and here. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me.

Frank Mares
Wikipedia on Psychics
Contacting my deceased Mother-in-law

Spirit Guides help me find my IPhone

Adjustment bureau psychically looking for the psychic light

 

Today’s post is not about reincarnation, but we head back into the psychic light to see what people with psychic ability do with their psychic power. (I know, that’s a lot the word “psychic” being used there, but I have to do that to pay the bills. Now, on with the show!)

At the end of my book, I have an appendix where tell a number of short funny psychic stories that I got involved in. One of those stories involved using my clairsentient ability (feeling) to find lost things. To refresh your memory, I would ask to find a given lost object (keys, wallets, etc). My specific procedure would be to connect to the psychic source and ask if the lost object was in a given room or I would point my finger and ask if the object was in that direction. Either method would result in a yes or no headshake which after a number of repeated questions would lead me to the lost item’s location. My wife Karol would ask, “Who is giving you this information?” My answer would be the Source, aka the Universal Consciousness, aka God him or herself. That answer alone started to make me feel squeamish. After all, God is not my valet. I am greatly appreciative of the divine help, but having God as a helper in trivial things makes me feel uncomfortable. To get around this political issue, I realized that all souls have a right to universal information. That is every event, no matter how large or small is recorded, even where I put my stupid keys yesterday evening. So instead of tapping into the Source and asking where my keys are, I simply request access to the universal information data base and psychically ask for the location. It works just as well and it shifts the work to me rather than God. Recently, I noticed a change in how this search mechanism works. Originally, the other side just made the process easy for me by telling me which room the object was in. It was very similar to when I first got my psychic abilities and the spirits would spell out complete words to any reasonable question that I asked. As time when on, that game changed to just giving me the first letter of a word and how many letters the word contained. (The game was changed to psychic Wheel of Fortune.) In the search for lost items game, I noticed that instead of telling me where an object was, the other side would indirectly lead me to it. I will give you a few examples that happened over Christmas week. Karol drives herself ragged during Christmas week, it is busy at her store and she has her Christmas preparations. When you run around at 1,000 MPH things get misplaced. The first object was her Iphone, which she could not find despite tearing the house apart. A crabby, frustrated wife is not in my best interests, so I stepped in with my amazing search talent. Our house has two staircases on either side of the house that goes down into the lower level. Starting at the kitchen, I started pointing my finger and received a lot of no headshakes at rooms where the Iphone wasn’t. Walking at a quick pace, I blew past the non relevant rooms and was coming almost to the end of the circuit when I saw her missing Iphone on a library shelf in the lower level hallway. Karol was absolutely amazed and gratified that I found the phone within 2 minutes. My talents were again tested when she misplaced the gift cards that she bought our kids as stocking stuffers. She was again at a frustrated boiling point when I stepped in. Psychic directions brought me to our bedroom, but there was Christmas debris everywhere, so finding small cards was not easy. I was directed to my nightstand where I went to look. Standing over the nightstand, I was then told that the cards were not there. Instead of being frustrated, I just went along with the game, having a benign confidence that I would be eventually shown where they were. I then made an immediate about face from the night stand and noticed the 4 level wooden shelf immediately across from the room. Is it there I asked? Yes came the headshake. I walked over to that shelf and there the cards were on the lowest shelf. Karol’s face once again showed utter amazement. “You are amazing!” she said. I responded, “Just be grateful that the spirits like you.” Just yesterday, I lost my Iphone. I had to go someplace so I was getting frustrated by not being able to find it through conventional means. I tore apart our kitchen, bedroom and my office without success. I should have known better, I already got the psychic tip that it was not at those locations. I just did not believe that because logically it had to be in one of those three rooms. I surrendered completely to the psychic search method, where I was lead to the leather couch in the downstairs great room. Once I sat down on the couch, I looked behind me and saw my Iphone sitting on the sofa table behind the couch. I had put it there last night when I was playing one of my sons in table tennis. In my book, I make reference to the spirits of the Adjustment Bureau (like in the Matt Damon movie). I can just picture them moving me around my house like a puppet on a string during the searches to find my lost items!

Frank Mares
Wikipedia on Psychics

More on contacting Karol’s Mom in Heaven

reincarnation stories

Beloved mother-in-law

Today we step into the psychic light and go to the psychic source for personal purposes.  This event occurred during Thanksgiving Week 2012.

After the passing of my mother-in-law, my wife Karol wanted to get out of town to recover from the trauma of her funeral. So we took the family to the Tennessee Smoky Mountains for Thanksgiving week. One night we went to a great southern type restaurant that had all kinds of delicious food served in big quantities. It was fantastic. As I was digging in, I thought of Karol’s mom and how she would have loved being there with us sampling all the different foods. I was starting to feel sad but then I realized that I could invite her down to visit with us in spirit form. I closed my eyes and psychically reached out to her. “Mom are you out there?” YES “We are having a great meal here in Tennessee, you would love it. Are you enjoying any fantasy meals up there in Heaven?” NO Can you come and visit us now? NO “Where are you now, are you at somebody’s house?” (I was thinking that she was visiting with her deceased friends from Youngstown up there) YES “Who are you with?” With that I had to call out individual letters A-B-C…. Until Mom responded with a W. “Is that a first name? NO Last name?” YES I was getting frustrated because my form of psychic communication is just too darn slow. Luckily my daughter Jani was seated next to me. Jani is clairaudient so she can actually hear messages. “Jani, I want you to tap into your Grandmother and ask her whose house she is at.” With that Jani closed her eyes and concentrated. Then she reported, “I thought she said Aunt Liz.” Bingo, Aunt Liz’s last name starts with a W. Aunt Liz is also very ill and is Mom’s only sibling. Of course Mom would be with her sister in spirit form giving her comfort. But I came away pleased that Jani and I were able to track down Mom’s whereabouts.

Frank Mares
Wikipedia on Psychics

A spirit at her wake

clairvoyant

Originally posted November 2012

Last Sunday, Karol’s family and friends gathered for my mother-in-law’s wake.
She certainly touched a lot of people in her life because the line was out the
door to pay her respect.   During the earlier family session, I was sitting in
the front row while the priest was praying the rosary over her body.  I spent
that time meditating. During this time I reached out to Mom psychically and asked
her if she was present in the room. I received a yes answer. I then asked her
where she was in the room, “Are you behind Ed? (her husband)” No “Are you behind
Joe?”  (one of her  five sons) No “Are you behind Greg?”  (another of her  five
sons) Yes.   Like I said before, I can only feel spirits and get yes and no
answers, but I cannot see or hear them.  Luckily, my 11 year old son Camy can
see spirits out of the corner of his eye (he has clairvoyant abilities)  and he just so happened to be sitting next to me.  I leaned over to him and whispered, “Look behind Uncle Greg behind us and tell me if you see anything.” Camy turned, looked and then excitedly whispered back, “There’s a lady in white standing right behind Uncle Greg!  She has hair that reaches just past her ear.” I whispered back, “That’s your
Grandmother Camy!  Nice work!” Greg was the last of her nine children and the
“baby of the family”.  It would make sense that Mom would be right where she
said she would be giving comfort to Greg.

Frank Mares

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A smooth transition to Heaven

reincarnation stories

Beloved mother-in-law

Originally posted 11/07/2012

My mother-in-law Mary Miller passed away around 3:00 am on Wednesday morning. I got the word from my sister-in-law Joyce at around 6:00 am on my cell phone. Luckily, I was actually sleeping downstairs on my office futon because my wife Karol was having a difficult time sleeping that night. This allowed me to let Karol sleep a little longer before I broke the bad news to her. I was sitting on my futon being very sad when I got an inspiration. I sat on my futon and started to meditate. I wondered if I could already contact Mom psychically. My skepticism about doing this came from my prior book readings where it was suggested that a soul that just left the body needed time to readjust to its new environment. Also some souls that suffered trauma needed to sleep before they could interact. Since Mom went through some tough physical issues, I feared that that might be the case. Never the less, I asked the Source if I could contact her. The answer that I received was a surprising YES! I called out to Mom mentally and made one of my normal psychic connections. Here is the exchange, remember I am limited to just yes and no answers so I had to prompt her. Mom, are you OK? Yes Did your Dad come to greet you and take you into the white light? Yes Was your Mom also there to take you into the light? No Were all of your old friends from Youngstown there to greet you in the light? Yes Did you have a good time? Yes By this time I was emotionally overcome and had to cut the session short. I told her, “I am so happy for you Mom. You have fun there and I will be in touch soon.” Later that afternoon, we told the kids about the loss of their Grandmother, we thought it was best not to tell them until they got back from school. Jani was particularly distraught when told the news. To help her, I walked her down to her bedroom and sat on her bed with her. I told her, “I want you to meditate and reach out to grandma just like you do with my father.” Jani closed her eyes and started to concentrate. I watched her as her expression would change and she started to cry quietly. After a bit, she opened her eyes. “Did you make contact?” I asked. “Yes, she said that she loves all of us and that everything is ok.” “Jani, what did her voice sound like? Did it sound like your internal voice or was it something different?” “It was Grandma’s voice, but different. Her voice sounded younger.” “How much younger?” I asked. “She sounds like she was thirty years old.” With that response, I just got a validation that Jani was really communicating with her Grandmother. I never told Jani that souls in Heaven typically adopt the appearance and mannerisms of when they were 30 years old, yet Jani reported that very impression. I complimented Jani on her good work and reminded her that she really did not lose her grandmother if she was available to talk to. I told her to reach out to Mary anytime she felt sad. Jani responded that she swore that she felt her Grandmother’s hand on her shoulder when she was communication with her. Just to be sure, I asked the Source if Mary was indeed touching Jani’s shoulder. The answer that I received was yes.

Frank Mares
Wikipedia on Heaven